Nigel Marsh: Redefining Success
Nigel Marsh makes a very clear distinction difference between being “successful” and being “admirable”. Rather than having all our emphasis on financial measures, Nigel believes we should be celebrating more everyday things like being kind to other people and committing to loving relationships with our partners and children.
He also points out that sometimes the best things in life are often when we don’t get what we want.
Nigel has been a leading CEO, is the co-founder of Earth Hour, the founder of the Sydney Skinny and author of three best selling books — Fat, Forty and Fired; Overworked and Underlaid; and Fit, Fifty and Fired-Up. His TED talk has been viewed nearly 3 million times and remains the most viewed ever talk given outside America. Nigel is a husband and father of four beautiful children.
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